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Dec
14

My life in sex: men love the fact that I’m not interested in commitment – The Guardian

My life in sex: men love the fact that I’m not interested in commitment  The Guardian

I’m a 49-year-old single woman and for two years have enjoyed the best sex of my life. I have always been sexually relaxed, but extremely loyal within a …

Dec
7

My life in sex: ‘An enormous penis isn’t without complications’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘An enormous penis isn’t without complications’  The Guardian

I have an extremely large penis. According to an online size chart, I’m in the top 1% in the world. It’s not something that you can really brag about or bring up at …

Nov
30

My life in sex: ‘She was turned on by blind guys’ – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: 'She was turned on by blind guys'
The Guardian
… of love, affection and sexual desire as any able-bodied person. If that sexual desire is enhanced by the fact that we are sitting in wheelchairs or holding canes… Really, what's the harm? • Each week, a reader tells us about their sex life. Want

Nov
23

My life in sex: ‘We both fell in love with the same beautiful young man’ – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: 'We both fell in love with the same beautiful young man'
The Guardian
… trying to make sense of the space left behind. • Comments on this piece are premoderated to ensure the discussion remains on the topics raised by the article. Each week, a reader tells us about their sex life. Want to share yours? Email sex

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Nov
16

My life in sex: ‘The chill of mortality made sex a defiant act’ – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: 'The chill of mortality made sex a defiant act'
The Guardian
We had sex when I was bald from chemo, with a drain from my armpit, with new surgical scars. The chill of mortality made sex a defiant, triumphant act. When a second, shocking tumour appeared 18 years later, I knew how fundamental that experience of …

Nov
9

My life in sex: the male survivor of childhood abuse – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: the male survivor of childhood abuse
The Guardian
Therapy helped me deal with my shame, and empathise with both my younger self and my abuser, who I've come to recognise was likely a victim of sexual abuse himself. I'm still lonely, but I haven't given up. • Each week, a reader tells us about their

Nov
2

My life in sex: the 21-year-old saving herself for marriage – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: the 21-year-old saving herself for marriage
The Guardian
I've also had my head banged against a wall by a guy I was kissing because I didn't want to go any further, and once had to keep removing the hands of a guy from going down my jeans. I don't want to engage fully in a culture that treats sex so casually

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Oct
26

Why Are We All Having So Little Sex? – TIME


TIME

Why Are We All Having So Little Sex?
TIME
When they didn't live together, they had sex every time they saw each other. After they moved in, however, he says things changed. Their sex life became inconsistent. They'd have a really active week and then a month with nothing, or just one at-bat

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Oct
19

My life in sex: ‘I’m 30 and I still find the lesbian scene excruciating’ – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: 'I'm 30 and I still find the lesbian scene excruciating'
The Guardian
I haven't had sex for two years; I would rather meet my own needs with vibrators. But I would like to meet a partner one day. For now, I am happily single, waiting until a special woman who loves me exactly as I am comes along. • Each week, a reader

Oct
12

My life in sex: ‘He rarely lasts a whole minute’ – The Guardian


The Guardian

My life in sex: 'He rarely lasts a whole minute'
The Guardian
He rarely lasts a whole minute, but, for me, the issue is not only our lack of sex. It's the crushing look of disappointment on his face as our attempts at passion dry up within seconds, leaving him to retreat into his head and berate himself for being