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Mar
15

My life in sex: ‘My fear of losing my erection meant I could no longer enjoy sex’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘My fear of losing my erection meant I could no longer enjoy sex’  The Guardian

Until five years ago, I was lucky enough to have led a long, exciting and varied sex life. That all came crashing down one innocuous morning, three weeks into a …

Mar
1

My life in sex: ‘Orgasmic meditation is fabulous’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘Orgasmic meditation is fabulous’  The Guardian

The woman in her 70s who found it’s never too late.

Feb
22

Sex in New York City Parks? It’s Less of a Thing Than It Used to Be – The New York Times

Sex in New York City Parks? It’s Less of a Thing Than It Used to Be  The New York Times

A decade ago, New York City police officers handed out hundreds of tickets for “sex in park.” Last year, they wrote six.

Feb
15

My life in sex: ‘I was amoral when it came to matters of the heart’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘I was amoral when it came to matters of the heart’  The Guardian

For years I didn’t have the slightest interest in being faithful. It just didn’t seem important. As long as boyfriends didn’t know, then what possible harm could it do?

Feb
8

My life in sex: ‘We tell each other everything about our sex with other people’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘We tell each other everything about our sex with other people’  The Guardian

Five years ago, my wife and I moved to the suburbs. I didn’t want to, but I said yes to keep her happy, to get it over with. That plan didn’t work – I missed the city, …

Feb
1

My life in sex: the 46-year-old virgin – The Guardian

My life in sex: the 46-year-old virgin  The Guardian

I lead a full and active life. I run, play music, love reading, films and writing, have good friends and adore time with my family. Most of the time, I feel reasonably …

Jan
23

Don’t Fear the Sex Recession – JSTOR Daily

Don’t Fear the Sex Recession  JSTOR Daily

We shouldn’t see changes in Americans’ sex lives as a single phenomenon with an overarching cause.

Jan
18

My life in sex: ‘I used to think HIV was a curse. Now my sex life is better than ever’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘I used to think HIV was a curse. Now my sex life is better than ever’  The Guardian

Don’t get me wrong, having HIV sucks. Use condoms, get tested, don’t get it. Following my diagnosis aged 31, I lost two years to depression. Plagued by doubts …

Jan
11

My life in sex: the woman recovering from assault – The Guardian

My life in sex: the woman recovering from assault  The Guardian

I instigated sex with my husband a few days after the attack.

Jan
4

My life in sex: ‘Penetration is excruciating’ – The Guardian

My life in sex: ‘Penetration is excruciating’  The Guardian

Whenever I hear about a couple over a certain age enjoying an active sex life, I marvel about one aspect that is never talked about. The menopause is now a …